So I randomly get the following comment on a blog I made today. When I blog about my life here in Korea, I try to find humor in daily life. I try to find the simple differences and share them with those back home that aren't here. I do not hate Korea, Koreans, or really anything this country, it's simply different. I had posted a blog about shopping awhile back. The whole point of the blog was that Koreans dress completely different than I, who look like the Gap just threw up on me. I couldn't find anything because one, I'm 5'10, wear a size 9 shoe, and am TALL.
This following was the comment left by some person:
Your post makes me ashamed to be American. You're so frickin' condescending! Now wonder educated Koreans hate Americans. First off, you are fat, not just by asian standards but by world standards. 30% of Americans are obsese and you are one of them, thats why you couldn't find anything to buy, because Korea doesn't have stores like Target where pants have draw-strings. Second of all, you are racist against Korean women. You look at all of them as prostitutes, refuse to learn the culture, refuse to learn reading Korean (which takes about 4 hours) and generally walk around like a superior American with your stupid dog. In fact, when I was in Korea (lived there for six months) I felt ashamed about how entitled American women act in front of Korean women, that I refused to even associate with them. Yes, Korean has a lot of different customs, and they are not the most tact people on earth, but they are innocent compared to gluttonous, useless Americans who come over and teach them English and walk around judging them. With all your free time I suggest you do several things:1) go out around the country and to Seoul and learn about the history of the country. It's pretty interesting2) join a group or college where you can start to learn Korean through a language exchange partner, esp. a GUY. Tell your husband to f- off if he has a problem with it. I'm sure he's not making any money thats why he shipped your ass over there.3) stop being such an ignorant bitch and open your mind to different cultures and the way they do things4) stop thinking your shit doesn't stink because you are are white. 5) remember that Americans our age have negative savings, are up to our ass in debt, have a bullshit economy which is crashing and Asia is going to be richer than us, so in a few years time you will be begging for their money. So, unless you plan to live in hickville Ohio forever maybe it would serve your interests to learn their culture, language and learn how to use chopchicks and not look like an ass. Thanks.
I'm not really quite sure WHAT to make of this comment exactly. I read the whole thing with my mouth hanging open, and the first thing that came to mind was "When in the flying fuck did a size 10 become obese?"
I'm not going to defend a damn thing that this person wrote. I have no idea who wrote it, why, and who shit in his eggs this morning. I am however, really excited, that someone who has no clue who I am, and knows nothing about my life, took everything I wrote completely out of context, and then called my dog stupid.
And the whole time I'm reading this I'm thinking it sounds completely LIKE the quintessential asshole Americans that come over here. But what do I know, I'm from Germany...
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I would blame it on ESLCafe....they don't seem to like their lives very much. Your blog cracks me up at the most inappropriate times a work...
It's awesome!
I am sorry that some fucktard wrote that. I suppose it might be easy for assumptive people to take what you write out of context, but I NEVER assumed any of those things...and when I read that, I became indignant. I don't know you, but I came across your blog and have been following it for a few weeks [i'm moving to korea soon] and i've been looking for varying opinions of korea BY people who live there, and I've found that here.
you're not obese.
your dog is cute.
i'm sorry your husband isn't there with you...i can't imagine what that must be like.
and i hope that i get to meet you, a fellow buckeye, when i arrive.
Cheers,
Beth
My comments on this commenter:
First off, I love it how that person lived in Korea for six months and feels that he/she is in a position to judge you. He/she didn't even stay a whole year, so how much could he/she POSSIBLY know?? If this person liked it so much and was so "in touch" with Korea, why didn't he/she stay? If that person is going to judge you based on false interpretations and assumptions based on inadequate reading time spent on your blog, why can't I do the same thing in my opening paragraph to debunk his/her argument?
Second, and this is a big one for me, if that person thinks that you are obese, they are obviously insecure about their own weight (or are a total princess), because a size 10 is definitely NOT obese: it is an average. I also can't find things to wear here, and I'm even a Korean height. Does that mean I'm obese? Doesn't it matter that I have size 9.5 feet? Doesn't it matter that my legs are longer than Korean legs and pants are too short? Oh no, according to our "expert," I must be too obese to wear Korean clothes, not wrongly proportioned. By the way, I fit into the "average" BMI range, thank you very much.
The person who wrote this comment must be female, by the way.
Also, I love how the commenter generalizes that you look at ALL Korean women as "prostitutes" when you specifically referred to the Coffee Girls as the only prostitutes mentioned in your entire blog. COFFEE GIRLS ARE PROSTITUTES, and they are everywhere. Did this person even READ the whole thing or just skim it? You've even mentioned how Korean women are very conservative, so why would you call them all prostitutes? It makes no sense to me.
Next, I find it funny and noteworthy how this person tells you to visit Seoul and assumes you haven't been there at all. Uh-huh. How many times have you been there again? I sure hope this person wasn't suggesting you go to Seoul to learn and experience Korean culture, because Seoul is like any other major city: it has "big city culture" that is not necessarily country-specific.
I don't understand where the commenter says you "refuse to learn Korean culture." Is that because you can't use chopsticks? Come on now, the only reason I learned how to use them was because I lived in Asia before. If not for that, WHY THE F WOULD I NEED TO KNOW HOW TO USE CHOPSTICKS OR EVEN LEARN HOW?? Not every person in the entire world can use them, so shut your mouth, commenter.
One more thing to the commenter: this blog is about differences. The blog owner is pointing out differences between the countries in her own way. Nowhere in it have I ever seen her say that she feels superior to Koreans or that she hates Koreans or that she hates Korea in general. You need to read more and actually think before speaking. It's Americans like YOU who make the rest of them look bad: Americans who judge without fully understanding something first; Americans who feel that "it's all about me" and nobody else could possibly understand something like I do; Americans who judge people based on their WEIGHT (come on, how juvenile a comment was that); Americans who CAN'T USE PROPER GRAMMAR. Get a life and keep your useless, negative criticism to yourself, especially if your comments are half-arsed and way off-base considering the context of the materials on which you are commenting.
Oh, commenter, by the way, SHE'S GERMAN in origin. She didn't grow up 100% American. Think next time before you speak about Americans, especially when you don't even have the poster's national origin right.
Jasmine,
I'm sorry to see the comments left regarding your blog. It's very easy to blast someone annonymously. What BS!!!
To the "commenter": you claim that she needs to better familiarize herself with her new surroundings, before being able to speak accurately about them. You then proceed to refer to "Hickville" OH. Please elaborate on your vast experience with the State of OH.
There are numerous other issues with these comments, but I don't have the time to waste.
Jasmine,
I enjoy keeping up with your blog, and don't feel that you have any negative feelings toward S. Korea or it's people.
Have a great Day!!
Nick, from OH
Wow......I don't know what to say....however I do know this person has brown eyes because they are so full of CRAP. What a DOWNER.
To the commenter... I hope you are happy....Is this really how you feel? Next time you think about feeling this way write your feelings down on paper, wad it into a little ball and SHOVE IT.
Jasmin.....You Rock!!!
Keep up the good work and the really candid blogs.
So, some anonymous batard who doesn't know Cincinnati from Steubenville thinks that you have problems? Count me in as another indignant Buckeye.
Sincerely,
Anita
(a.k.a. illysook...on Dave's)
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